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My waist finally looks like how it did before I had kids but I didn’t lose weight. Why am I still 15 lbs from my starting weight?

10.06.2025 06:37

My waist finally looks like how it did before I had kids but I didn’t lose weight. Why am I still 15 lbs from my starting weight?

If your breasts provide milk without hurting or poisoning your children your husband should be thankful.

Maybe you had implants installed, or maybe you gained cupsizes from lactation.

Why does a narcissist act like it's nothing when they hurt you?

My honest guess:

If your children have to take formula or drink too much water at the water fountain, maybe your husband should be grateful anyway though your children have a right to complain and as parents you should do what you can to make sure your children are developing functioning brains and personalities. If you’re trying to do evil slight of hand I think it’s easier on girls though there’s no reason to send any boys through transition just because their parents have a thing for boobs.

Why do trans people get so deeply offended when a stranger misgenders them, especially when it's a first encounter? I've been socially transitioned for 4 years and it just feels like a waste of energy to be so hurt by it.

Otherwise, it is also possible you gained brain mass from understanding children which is respectable too.